Thursday, May 22, 2008
I'm so frustrated. It seems like every time I ask a certain person in my life for help-- or explain that I need something more from him, he turns it around on me and I become the person who can't do things on my own. He just wants to "empower" me to get things done with out help..... ARG I don't know what to do. I stuck. I need help from him and he won't help me. I get this response from him often, and sometimes I can deal with it and just become independent and do things on my own, and sometimes I freak out to get his attention (which I do). Neither is healthy. Neither is who I am or want to be. I want to need his help. How do I want to need his help when he doesn't want to help me? Is that healthy? Like I said, I'm stuck. I'm hurt. I'm frustrated. And suggestions?